EDITOR'S NOTE: This post originally appeared at LifeLube.org on May 19, 2009.
There is a sad reality to being in a 'minority group' in the United States.
Despite
politicians' and pundits' trumpeting of our nation as being the "most
free nation on Earth," Americans still have hypocritical
double-standards about Gays, Lesbians, Bisexual, Transgendered, and
Questioning Americans.
This is especially true when it comes to
3 of the most visible issues our country is facing--1. Gay Marriage, 2.
The U.S. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Policy, and 3. HIV/AIDS prevention and
treatment funding.
For decades every other social group in the
United States has been prioritized to make strides in our society.
Women, ethnic groups, religious minorities; all have seen major strides
in equality and equal protection under the law in the past 40 years.
Indeed, where it used to be acceptable to discriminate, oppress,
physically abuse, and outwardly harm members of these social groups;
today they are protected in ways that other countries have yet to catch
up to.
A glaring exception, indeed a group that has not only
been ignored, but in fact is still actively shunned and told to "deal
with it" today; is the GLBTQ community. Even Native Americans, Asian
Pacific Americans, and Latin American folks have greater rights to
equal treatment than GLBTQ folks, whereas 10 years ago these groups
were largely ignored by the greater political power classes, and barely
could get 10 minutes with a major political leader to discuss their
issues. When you think of ethnic and religious leaders who preach
discrimination against GLBTQ Americans, while simultaneously claiming
equality is a fundamental right; such is evidence of how far we have
yet to go.
When it comes to Gay Marriage; the religious right
has no problem with any other type of 'married' relationship between
two people. They have no problem with multi-ethnic, cross-denomination,
cross-religious, even cross-class unions. GLBTQ marriages are the sole
area where they claim the "sanctity of marriage is threatened." Heck,
they don't even make this much noise about 'non-believers' like Pagans,
Atheists, non-Christian faiths, or WICCANS. Nope, they only raise caine
about GLBTQ Americans' wanting to have legal equality.
On
the U.S. Military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, when you compare us
to the other top military organizations in the world, we have fallen
way behind other countries. From the United Kingdom, to Canada, to
Australia, to the UN peacekeeping forces--all see all of their soldiers
as equally valuable and equally necessary. The U.S. Military, though,
under Ronald Reagan, George H.W. Bush, and even William J. Clinton; the
creator of the bizzare and outwardly harmful "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"
policy; through George W. Bush's regime, all continued to open up the
ranks to all comers except GLBTQ members. They claimed that recognizing
the equality and necessity of GLBTQ members would harm troop morale;
but if you talk to real troops, real commanders (at least the modern
and forward-thinking ones), and real military leaders--they'll tell you
that GLBTQ officers and enlisted soldiers continue to be some of the
most dedicated patriots ever to wear their uniforms.
When it
comes to global epidemics, the media raises all kinds of
hyper-awareness about the H1N1 "Swine Flu," Breast Cancer, Diabetes,
and Autism; but couldn't care less that HIV/AIDS is still as rampant in
the U.S. as it ever was. Last night I watched Uncle Charlie Gibson
shine the ABC World News "light of truth" on the 2nd wave of
drug-resistant HIV/AIDS and an epidemic of anti-retroviral drug abuse
in South Africa, but I can't even remember the last time I saw a
network news report about how drug resistant strains of HIV/AIDS, MRSA,
Hepatitis, and Syphilis are ravaging the GLBTQ communities in whole new
ways. Stranger still is how the local media here in Chicago have
outright ignored the reality that Governor Pat Quinn has targeted
public health programs that feed the ADAP, Ryan White, and other
HIV/AIDS victim support programs as some of the biggest cuts proposed
under his new budget. Even after the AIDS Foundation of Chicago,
LifeLube.org, The Windy City Times, The Free Press, and Gay Chicago all
decried the cuts in their pages, and Gay Liberation Networks' Andy
Thayer was acquitted by a jury for allegedly assaulting a Chicago
Police Officer; our community's issues are nearly ignored by the rest
of our local press and political establishment.
Except, that is,
when they want our money. Yep, Illinois political and business leaders
have suggested that Illinois should be the "honeymoon destination" for
GLBTQ couples who get married in Iowa. Of course, these same hypocrites
can't see fit to give GLBTQ Illinoisans equal rights to marry as Iowa
does. Nope, they just want the gay dollar without giving us the equal
protection under the law against discrimination, tax fairness, or even
protecting the salaries that produce it.
Now I'm not saying that
America is bad, or that Americans are bad. I'm just pointing out here
that America is the land of hypocritical attitudes when it comes to
true equality for all people. Straight folks, especially those in the
religious and ethnic minority communities, seem to want equality only
for themselves and not truly for everyone. Politicians are even worse,
because they're willing to ask for gay money, but don't have the
political cohones to actually stand up and deliver real equal rights
for the GLBTQ folks from whom they almost always have their hands out
to squeeze a few bucks.
It is time for all Americans to deal
this hypocrisy a fatal blow, and truly level the playing field for all
Americans, and it starts at the top. President Obama relentlessly
worked the gay community to support him, promising all measures of
change under his administration. As of yet, he has yet to deliver.
Governor Quinn, Mayor Daley, legislators, supervisors, and aldermen are
no better; as they have continued to ask for our wallets, but pretend
our money, health, and value as productive contributors to society
isn't as important when the heat is on from the religious leaders,
corporate beancounters, and agents of intolerance.
It is time
for America to realign itself with true equality, to give GLBTQ
Americans all the same prioritization; and to give the same amount of
respect and dignity to us that they do any other productive and
patriotic community in our country. It is time for us to stand up and
make them, especially now, when we have been promised change, but have
yet to see any happen.